My mother is apparently allergic to every mask they've tried on her. Full face masks make her feel claustrophobic and the nasal pillow masks have made her nose very raw. She's quite frustrated as she was given many masks and told they were "hypoallergenic" but she reacts to them all. Insurance won't pay for a dental device (which actually was a prospect she was excited about trying). She gets frustrated being told how important treatment is, when she's not offered any working solutions. Just yet another mask. She feels suppliers are just eager to bill her insurance.
Frankly, I'm disenchanted with my suppliers who seem quite eager to get me replacement parts (hoses, mask cushions, etc)... I dread talking with them at all, because I feel pushed. "Your insurance will pay for it!" I get angry and let them know, "No, my insurance only pays HALF!" I do hate ordering supplies because you can never get a price quote on anything. "Insurance will pay for it" seems to be the attitude. It's a sick sign of the disregard for outrageous pricing when it's just assumed that "insurance will pay" (so the price doesn't matter). That's why people like me don't get supplies as often -- I have no idea if I can even afford them or not because I can't get a price quote.
If you're diagnosed with diabetes, there's lots of support. If you get diagnosed with sleep apnea, then you become reliant on a medical supply company that is basically a bunch of salespeople ready to pounce. They said they'd be monitoring my usage/compliance, but it's not out of care for me as a patient. It's to make sure the insurance company will pay for my machine. Which, mind you, they wanted to continue to RENT to me into the period where my deductible would become due again. Almost a full year, if I recall. The people I talked to on the phone misquoted what I'd pay out of pocket for the machine. I've gone deeper into debt and was getting these yellow pages with red writing that my account was "overdue" when I was on a payment plan.
I'm very soured, as you can tell.
My sleep doctor and I were at odds. I was complaining of daytime fatigue despite using my machine every night, all night long. I had a MSLT (Multiple Sleep Latency Test). The lab was a hole-in-the-wall. It's not that I want hotel accommodations, but I told them I couldn't sleep in the room that was offered to me. Why not? "Do you see the leak in the ceiling? There's a big wet spot on the bed!" So, I was taken to the children's room to sleep on an uncomfortable twin mattress. I don't mind the twin mattress, but I have arthritis in my hips and I dunno... I guess the "feature" of this particular bed was to protect the mattress from bed-wetting. It wasn't meant necessarily for comfort. I was told I had to keep the door open to use the restroom because the light wasn't working in the restroom (nevermind I know there are cameras in the room). During the MSLT, the room being on an outside wall was problematic. I heard street traffic, people on cigarette breaks.
The technician was less than friendly. Not like the night people. I guess they didn't communicate her schedule well to her or something... she wasn't happy to be there and said she normally doesn't work that day. It seemed to frustrate her right off the bat when I didn't fall asleep on the first or second try. The whole experience just had me feeling rather rattled and conditions were less than ideal.
So, my sleep doctor sent me a letter that poo-poo'd my daytime fatigue. I COULDN'T be tired if I didn't fall asleep within 15 minutes (in a strange place, with a good amount of noise, after a rather bumpy night with a cranky daytime tech).
I solved my own problem. Why couldn't she look at my data and tell that my machine was powering itself off while I was asleep? There was an issue with the power cord. Bump the cord ever so slightly, and it turns itself off. Must have been a known issue because the replacement machine had a really robust-looking power cord.
I am not normally a complainer, believe it or not. For my asthma, I've always been treated well. For my chronic pain, once I got the right doctors, I've been handled well. For sleep apnea, you're given a machine and then you're on your own with glorified salespeople ready to pounce on you. Where's the support system? Why can't I get a price on supplies? I dread the day I have to get a new machine. Every 5 years? I don't think so.