You might want to go to www.cpaptalk.com and post your question there. There are some very knowledgeable members who can help you set the right pressure range.
As far as patients changing their own pressure, many people have come to cpaptalk.com and the other apnea board floundering big time because the pressures weren't set correctly by their doctor and were given the right assistance from forum members. Of course, no one should be changing it without totally understanding the data in Sleepyhead, http://sleepyhead.jedimark.net/, which is a free program.