"Would you like a referral to sleep medicine?" That is the question I wish a primary care provider would have asked me.
For about 15 years I told every primary care provider I saw about the chronic fatigue I was having, that was severe enough to really make me miserable and undermine my ability to function normally, and that appeared to be caused by poor sleep. (I had also had some subtle signs of a sleep problem for a long time even before the fatigue had become a big problem for me.) Some of the primary care providers I spoke to ordered blood tests to check my thyroid hormone levels, iron status, and etc., which always came back normal. One doctor told me that I had mild depression and it would go away on its own after a while, a diagnosis that made no sense since I was one of the happiest, most enthusiastic, and most motivated people I knew in all ways other than being a bit unhappy about my chronic fatigue problem. Some primary care providers encouraged me to exercise, eat right, and practice good sleep hygiene, all of which I reported that I was already doing so much so that I had gained a reputation as a health fanatic. Some doctors honestly stated that they did not know what was causing my fatigue and did not have any treatment to offer me, others avoided responding to my fatigue complaint if I let them. Over time I became less vocal about the problem because it appeared that modern medicine just didn't have any way of helping me. No primary care provider ever offered me a referral to a sleep medicine specialist. But I couldn't hold back from continuing to search for a solution on my own, since the fatigue was really difficult to live with. Eventually I learned of the existence of the sleep medicine specialty through my own information gathering, and I assertively demanded a referral. It was only after seeing a sleep medicine doctor that my sleep apnea was eventually diagnosed and I am now in the process of being treated for it.
I think the reason why primary care providers did not offer me a referral to sleep medicine was because I did not look like a classic sleep apnea patient being a slender, young female who doesn't snore. But even so, shouldn't a possible case of insomnia, or some other sleep disorder, be referred to sleep medicine when the problem is causing major effects on the patient's life and is not easily solved with lifestyle modifications?! My experience seems like a really big fail on the part of primary care.