To be clear while I am a retired professional with a technical background, but I am not a physician or a sleep technician. These initial settings are for comfort only and each user tends to set up their preferences a little differently, but here is basically what works for me, to be as comfortable as possible to go to sleep each night. They are listed in the order they appear in the setup menu.
Minimum Pressure: 7 cm
Ramp Time: Auto
Start Pressure: 7 cm
EPR: On
EPR Type: Ramp Only
EPR Level: 3
What this will do is start you out with an Inhale pressure of 7 cm, and with the EPR (Expiratory Pressure Relief) setting of 3 cm, it will reduce the pressure to 4 cm which is the minimum for the machine on each exhale. 7 cm to most people feels very comfortable. It should feel like you are getting air in very freely without any restriction from the mask. Exhaling against 4 cm is easier, and the machine can't go any lower. This will continue at these pressures until the machine decides you are asleep. Then it ramps up to the minimum pressure of 7 (and it is there already). But the EPR will stop, and you will be exhaling against 7 cm, which should be comfortable as you are asleep. The purpose of using the auto ramp is to enable the EPR to only be used during the ramp period. Since apnea is as likely to occur on exhale as on inhale, the higher exhale pressure will be more effective in treating the apnea. The machine will not have to ramp up as soon to stop apnea occurring. In my case shutting the EPR off during sleep reduces the maximum mask pressure by about 2 cm. But that is kind of an individual thing.
This said I would consult with your sleep clinic and get some advice on pressures they used during your CPAP trial which looked pretty good. You should tell them about the high central apnea too, and get their opinion on that. They may want you to come back in for a titration study to find out at what pressure you may be more susceptible to central apnea. With SleepyHead you will also be able to observe that for yourself. It flags when events occur, and you will see what the pressure is. The other thing that SleepyHead will flag is the time one is in Cheyne Stokes Respiration (if at all), which is a specific type of central apnea. CSR can run up the central apnea count quite quickly.
For now it shouldn't hurt to leave your max pressure at 20. Down the road when you see what is going on with SleepyHead and get some advice from your clinic you may want to reduce that. If pressure is inducing your central apnea it may be necessary to limit the pressure and allow a little more obstructive apnea, but get less central apnea. That 8.3 cm pressure you saw reported is the 95% number, so 95% of the time your pressure was under 8.3 cm -- which is quite low. When you get more data and advice from your clinic, it may be possible to lower your maximum pressure to 9 cm or perhaps even less.
In my case I have made pressure changes over 20 times trying to find an optimum. What I found is that I was setting the minimum and maximum closer and closer together. In my current mode I have the maximum set at 12.2 cm and the minimum at 12.0 cm, or in other words essentially in fixed CPAP mode. Only 4 days into that mode, but so far my AHI is down noticeably. It seems possible that a fixed pressure during the night may do just as well or better than the machine's fancy algorithm constantly changing pressure all night!
Hope that helps some. Any questions just ask. Pages 2-11 in that technical manual is a good read. I believe Cheyne Stokes is explained as well.