I will attempt to answer your questions in under 500 words.
question 0:
They are fine. Some of the adjustments are in an on screen menu, which is a problem if you are not a native English speaker or you are technophobic (most of my patients are one or the other), but from your history you should be fine. The humidifier is one of the better ones. The AirSense 10 is usually a bit more expensive that either a Respironics or a Fisher & Paykel and no better than either of these. If you can get a Respironics DreamStation for less I would probably go that way. The main issue with the Fisher & Paykel is that the humidifier is fiddly and hard to empty, but if you use a humidifier it is also cheaper because you don't have to pay extra for it (it is integrated).
question 1:
That is a very technical question. The reps for each company will tell you that their machine adjusts itself faster than everyone else's, but they are all pretty similar. The simple truth is that there is no way of telling if a new machine will fix your sudden waking problem until you give it a try. The AirSense 10 is almost certainly no worse than your old Respironics machine, but whether or not it is better will only be revealed by giving it a try.
question 2:
It is easy to put the AirSense into clinical mode. I don't feel comfortable disclosing how it is done here, but I don't think I'm giving away any secrets when I say that Mr Google will help you find and answer to your question in under 60 seconds. I totally understand why you wish t oadjust your own machine and, as you are using an auto, the lower pressure is really only for your comfort and there is little harm in you adjusting it. However, I feel I must add that, in general, I do not encourage people to adjust their own machines. Sorry, just had to get that in.\
question 3:
The AirSense has it's own version of C-Flex called EPR. It's exactly the same thing. If you don't like it just turn it off. I personally hate C-Flex, EPR and all other similar forms of pressure relief. In 99.9% of cases they are unnecessary and in some cases can cause serious problems, but I don't want to break into a rant now (even if that's what internet fora are for). You can also turn the ramp off if you like.
Any further questions, I'm happy to help.