Thanks for your response!
My doctor originally wanted to do a fixed pressure at 8, since that's where everything was best, but since I was going up to about 13 on my own, and had no centrals during the test at 10, I talked him into doing 8-10. But, I'm between 9.8 and 10 every night, so really I could have had him just go with 10. I wonder if 11 would be better?
My AHI with taping again this last week have been markedly better - about 1.4 and below. (compared to 2.5 and above). Funny thing is - when I was on vacation to Banff and sleeping in a hostel bed by myself, my numbers were so much better all week - even without mouth taping. I never figured that one out.
I think a lot of my problem is that I do wake up every two hours like clockwork - even though for a while it had gotten better - more like 3-4 hours. Now, I'm back to every two. And that doesn't count the waking up from my 70 pound dog deciding to sleep on me in the middle of the night, or waking with all the noise my husband is making. I'm pretty sure it's hormonal, but my sleep doctor just wanted to do "sleep training" by having me actually sleep less each night, so I sleep through those times, I'm so tired. (not a good idea with a 1-2 hour commute). And my regular doctor believes it's hormonal and wanted to prescribe medication, which I don't like the idea of either.
As for my husband, I've suggested the mouth taping. He was SO against using a CPAP - he hates it - and I haven't been able to convince him yet. He's on a bipap too, so not sure if that makes a difference.
I haven't used sleepyhead, but plan to. One thing I'm worried about is that I'm having a lot of respiratory disturbances that don't show up as AHIs, and that my oxygen levels are dropping like they did in the sleep study (down to 84). Would that cause me to feel so overwhelmingly tired?
Thanks again. And, yeah - we have a couple of the dog beds, but the dogs jump up after we're asleep. I may have to start keeping them out of the room, or sleep in my daughter's room (she's out of the house) for a week or two and see if that helps......