I'm guessing a bit without being able to see the SleepyHead graphs but I think what you found out is that a minimum of 8 cm and maximum of 12 cm is too much pressure for you and caused your excessive central apnea events. This is kind of validated by the better results you got at 6 min and 10 max. And of those pressures the Max pressure is the critical one. It would seem you avoid centrals if pressure is under 10, but you get them when it is between 10 and 12.
I agree with the pulmonologist in that the EPR is better left off during the treatment period of the sleep. The reason is that your pressure is cycling up and down with each breath. If your obstructive apnea is occurring during the exhale the effective pressure preventing obstruction is for example only 7 cm when your inhale pressure is 10 cm. The problem with that is that you are getting an effective pressure of 7 cm to prevent obstructive events, while enduring a 10 cm pressure which may be causing central events. My conclusion has been that EPR of 3 is fine during the ramp, but can hurt you during treatment the rest of the night. In the extreme for example a 10 cm inhale with 7 cm exhale may be no better than a fixed pressure of 7 cm for preventing OA events. And, obviously 7 cm is better for avoiding CA events.
The trick with the ramp is to use the Auto Ramp feature. I find it works very well, and limits the ramp portion to the period of time you are awake. You do not have to guess how long it will take to fall asleep. And the second part of the Auto Ramp is to set the Ramp Start pressure high enough. So say for example you want to use a 6 cm min and 10 cm max. You set the EPR to Ramp Only with a start pressure equal to your minimum of 6 cm. Then while you are awake pressure will cycle from 6 cm inhale down to 4 cm exhale. When you fall asleep the EPR will stop and your inhale and exhale will be equal. You will have no reduction on exhale to make the treatment less effective. And, if it works well your machine will not have to increase pressure as much. The net result can be a significant reduction in actual pressure.
This all said another issue can be hypopnea events which are potentially central in nature can drive up the pressure. The only fix that I have found for that is to lower max pressure to prevent it, or in the extreme just switch to a fixed pressure. Remember the bottom line is that you want to limit pressure to as low as possible to prevent CA events, without having it so low that OA events start to spike up.
Generally apnea events which occur when you are awake are false flags. You won't get those false flags when using the Auto Ramp feature as the machine is smart enough to suppress those false flags until you actually fall asleep.
As far as needing different pressures at altitude I found one study that concluded with obstructive apnea there was no need to change pressure. That makes sense. The central apnea is a bit different matter. Your pressure needs for preventing OA should stay the same. The maximum pressure you can tolerate without excessive CA may be lower at altitude. That means the tradeoff pressure point might be different. I'm sure you will figure that out with some experience and with using SleepyHead.
Here is the conclusion of that study:
"For obstructive sleep apnea patients living at altitude, changes in elevation between 10,100 ft (3075 m) and sea level do not significantly alter absolute CPAP pressure requirements."
I take a bit of exception with the use of the word "absolute" because the machine does not use absolute pressure. I think they could have said it more accurately by simply saying you don't need to adjust the machine pressure setting for different elevations.
Edit: As for pressure settings, I think you might be better off with a minimum of 7 cm unless it causes centrals. It will give you more air while getting to sleep. It will let you move the ramp start up to 7 cm. I currently use a Ramp Start pressure of 9 cm for that reason. But, I run a fixed 11 cm, so I can start higher.