I had a closer look at your OSCAR data and have done a little bit more google research. The first thing I need to say is that I am a retired mechanical engineer and not any kind of medical professional. I draw my experience from reviewing my and my wife's data, and many others from this forum and others. With that context these are my thoughts, in no particular order.
That period of time where you had the very high respiratory rate is likely called Tachypnea or Nocturnal Tachypnea if you were asleep when it happened. It seems to be fairly rare but has been seen in people being treated with a CPAP. Possibly it happens in others, but without a CPAP or titration test equipment, it is never recorded. You can google it, but I am not sure in your case that it has an obvious cause. If you were awake, it could be simple anxiety, and I am not sure one can get anxious when asleep. If it is anxiety there are a number of drugs that can be used, but one should question if they should be used. I have taken an Ativan single pill before cataract surgery to deal with anxiety, but I think using it on an ongoing basis can be addictive. You mentioned Ambien, and that would likely be less addictive, but may have other side effects. I take a beta blocker, bisoprolol, for blood pressure control, but I understand it can be used, off label, to control anxiety as well. If you feel it is anxiety these are things to discuss with your doctor.
The areas flagged by your CPAP as CSR or Cheyne-Stokes Respiration, are more of a concern. I suspect those are quite disruptive to your sleep, and they may be resulting in low blood oxygen levels. You could consider getting an oximeter that clamps on your finger and gives a record of O2 levels during the night. SleepyHead and I believe OSCAR can accept the data from some of these meters so you can correlate events like the CSR flagged times to O2 levels. I believe OSCAR should give you some information on which meters it can accept data from.
With respect to it actually being true Cheyne-Stokes Respiration I am not so sure. Have a look at this simplified illustration comparing CSR to another condition called Biot's. True CSR has a smooth waxing and waning pattern, while Biot's does not. I do not see that in your example. It is more of a sudden increase and then some waning back to nothing.
Here is an example of what I think is true CSR from my personal data back in 2018 when I was having issues with it and central apnea.
Notice the smooth waxing and waning which starts even before the CSR green areas. The other big difference is that you are having obstructive apnea events between each while I am having central apnea events, which is no obstruction, just me not wanting to breath. I don't know much about Biot's other than it is rare, and your pattern does not fit it exactly either. Not sure if it is associated with OA or CA events. I think there is a good possibility that what you have is simply obstructive events with gasping periods for air between each one, and not Biot's either. That would be very disturbing to your sleep.
So this all said, I think for the short term, I would focus on more pressure in auto mode to see if the obstructive events can be prevented with more pressure. If my theory about you gasping for air between each obstruction should stop too, if the obstruction is prevented.
The part about doctors is complicated. I am in Canada and I am sure the overall system is different here. I have just gone to a sleep clinic where they give you a home test kit to take home. They send the results out to some cyber doctor somewhere that is supposed to be qualified to read them. Then they want you to buy a machine for $2400. Since I have no insurance for CPAP, I just bought my machine on line for about $800 and have done everything myself since then.
If you are in a situation where your insurance will cover it, I would try to find a pulmonologist that has sleep apnea experience and show them the results you are getting. If increased pressure does not solve things you need to get to the bottom of what is happening. At some point you may need to get a cardiologist involved too.
But for now give the 15/20 auto pressure setting a try. If it helps but still jams out at 20 cm, then you probably will have to pursue the BiPAP alternative with the hope a bit more than 20 will help. They go up to 25 cm. The extra pressure support from the BiPAP is not looking promising as you did not get a significant improvement with the EPR at 3 cm.
Your test in Auto at 15 min and 20 max should be very informative as to what possibilities there are. The cervical collar is still worth trying too. It may provide relief from the rapid sequencing of obstructive events.